Tuesday, 23 October 2012

How to Cut a Toxic Friend Out of Your Life "True Story"

I will be sharing some practical methods in getting rid of a toxic relationship.
I decided to write this article because I know the importance of having the right influences in your life it can literally be the difference between prosperity and poverty - health and divine wellbeing or sickness and stress.
The reason this topic is so important is because most people have relationship that fall right under the radar. These people go unsuspected and are very toxic to our growth and where were striving to reach in our personal lives. Who know, maybe this article will share some insights that can change your destination.
Quick Example of These Principals at Work - Step by Step Method Below
There was a friend of mine who for some reason went everywhere I did. As a matter of fact when friends and acquaintances seen me without him, they would ask where he was?
Our lives over time got busy and we were not with each other as often but we still kept in constant contact.
One day I got an email from a mutual friend saying check your locker just to make sure everything is OK I heard through the grapevine there are some weird happenings lately.
So I checked it that's same day, I opened everything and moved all my stuff to find out what's up...
I was shocked to find drugs in my locker and after further research I was shocked to find out this same person I thought was a friend was doing funny business behind my back.
We were close enough to share each other's locker codes; he used mine to hide the drugs he was selling in the office to some co-workers. I had no idea he was into this.
I confronted him and confessed, from that day one I kept him as an acquaintance for some time and when I left that job we just didn't keep in touch.
Take inventory of the people around you and the roles they play in your life. Obviously we don't want to just use people but its critical to have the right people around.
The saying is true "Evil communication corrupt good habits"
Here are 3 powerful techniques to get rid of toxic vibes:
1. Take a serious look at who's around you and make sure they are not dragging you down in any way, there are some friends we keep around because we like that playful side they bring out, but if it's not benefiting you then maybe you will have to make some tough decisions!
2. Read daily and make sure it's not bad news or something that's not uplifting. Read something inspirational and focus on that throughout the day
3. Write down 1 thing you are grateful for everyday and focus on that throughout the day. Make sure to do these three thing day in and day out and my guess is you will start seeing things a different way!


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